Train your brain to think positive

Why hold grudges if you could be in a positive mood instead ? by in love with life

 

We have already established before that happiness is a choice. You choose to be happy, to work on your life, to seek the good in everything. That is directly linked to training your brain to think positive.

If you are here, reading this right now, it means you have made a choice: A mindful choice to do something to improve your life. What better way than learning how to change your thoughts to be more positive?

A research done by Lisa R. Yanek for Johns Hopkins showed that people who had a more positive outlook on life were less likely to suffer from any cardiovascular disease (even when statistically, they could suffer it at any moment). That’s how important training your brain to think more positive is.

 

Four ways to start thinking positive.

So now that you are aware of how important thinking positive is, the next big question is, how do you train your brain to actually do this? Well, lucky for you, it can be done with just a small amount of time and dedication.

 

#1: Visualize a positive outcome.

A study published by The Journal of Behaviour Research and Therapy back in 2016 focused on asking people with severe anxiety problems to think and visualize a positive outcome of a situation they were worried about.

The study showed that people who did the experiment and took the time to think/visualize a positive outcome ended up being more relaxed and having lower anxiety levels than before the experiment.

This shows how visualizing a positive outcome can actually help you. Not only you will feel more at peace, but you will slowly train your mind into focusing on the good rather than the bad.

We, as a company, truly believe in positive thinking. Which is why we designed  our collection to encourage you to keep a positive outlook on life.

#2: Turn your negative thoughts around.

Whenever we are worried about something, our mind starts to think about everything that could possibly go wrong. You need to stop your thoughts right there and the best way to do so is by turning them around.

How about instead of thinking “What if everything goes wrong?” you think “What if everything goes right?” or instead of “I don’t think I can do this” you tell yourself “I will definitely try my best”. Switch from expecting bad outcomes to attracting the good.

Of course, habits are not easy to change, and it will take time, patience and dedication to change your thinking completely. But eventually, you will get there.

 

#3: Pay attention to your thoughts.

Our minds never stop working, not even when we sleep. We are constantly thinking, all day, every day, which is why it is so important to stop for a moment and pay attention to our thoughts.

This means taking the time to check if you are having negative thoughts and if so, stopping yourself right there and changing your thoughts into more positive ones. Tell yourself that you’ll be alright, that everything is fine, and that you will try your best for everything to work out the way you want it to.

This trick is really simple and will only take you a couple of minutes a day. The important thing here is for you to take the time to actually identify your thoughts and in case they are not positive, redirect them in order for you to be happier.

 

#4: Change the way you speak.

The way we speak or talk can directly affect our mood and our lives. If you are constantly talking in a negative way, then your thoughts will be negative as well which will automatically lead to a negative outcome.

Try to always speak in a positive, happy way. Be aware of what the words you use really mean and speak as if everything you say could potentially become true (because it can). But keep in mind that the subconscious does not understand words such as no and not (i.e. if you are trying to calm yourself down, don’t tell yourself ”I do not get stressed” tell yourself “ I am stress-free” instead).

Differentiate between what you are and what you feel. That you feel something in one moment, does not always mean that this is really how and who you are. It may reflect your feelings at that moment, but it may not reflect your whole personality. This is especially crucial to understand when you are looking at negative thoughts. Take the phrase “I am sad” as an example. At a closer look you are actually not a sad person, you are not always sad, you are simply feeling sad at that moment. It is ok to “feel sad”, it is ok to think that you feel sad at that moment, but it is not ok to think “I am sad”, because that way you are telling your subconscious mind that you are a sad person, as in a personality trait, which is not true.

The point we are trying to make is, training your brain into thinking positive may be a long, but totally worthy process. Sure, it will take time and effort, but your life will significantly improve. So go ahead and get started now.


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